God sees the special in you. Do you see it too? Value yourself.
Thursday, December 4, 2014
Worth More Than Gold
Just a reminder...
God sees the special in you. Do you see it too? Value yourself.
God sees the special in you. Do you see it too? Value yourself.
Friday, November 21, 2014
It's My Birthday and I'll Blog if I Want To!
I'd like to celebrate it blog-style by sharing a few of my FAVORITE things. (Heck! Oprah does it all the time. I don't see why I can't give it a shot, right?)
#1 - My AWESOME, LOVABLE, FANTASTIC, MAGNIFICENT (Can you tell how much I really love these guys?) Family
Husband, B. J. - My true soul-mate and my rock. This man is so good and so loving, I don't have the words to describe him. I love being his wife, but I'm even more honored to be his best friend. Love me some him!
Tyler - My lovely, vivacious, multi-talented 17-year-old. She's my harmonizing partner (we love to sing!). I'm the keeper of her secrets. She's our first-born. Thank you, for letting me practice all my first-time mommyness on you!
Drew - My thoughtful, handsome, creative 16-year-old. My boy is the BEST! Sure, I'm biased, but that's allowed. He always looks out for his mama and he knows I'll always look out for him. Thanks for reminding me to notice and enjoy the simple things in life, son!
Reagan - My cute-as-a-button twin (at least that's what people tell us). She's the one who challenges me, but in a good way. So gifted, inquisitive, and bright; always keeping me thinking and laughing. Wise beyond her 13 years, she never ceases to amaze me with the way she thinks. Her poems always melt my heart. I'll be there, front and center, when you accept that Pulitzer Prize, Mini-Me!
#2 - COFFEE (By itself, in something else... you name it!)
If you know me, you know this. However, let me be clear. I DON'T drink it every day because I don't want to become one of those cranky caffeine addicts. I also DON'T hang out in Starbucks every chance I get, although I will heartily accept their gift cards (HINT-HINT).
#3 - PINTEREST
It's the one social media site that is my weakness, which is strange because I rarely even chat with anybody on it. I just love all those beautiful, bountiful boards, filled with ideas, recipes, tips... I've been known to lose 3 - 4 hours on that site. Not good. So I'm in a self-imposed self-help program, right now. I'll tell you how it goes... right after I pin this neat tip for softening brown sugar...
#4 - LIFE COACHING (at least my brand of it)
I've actually been life coaching for years, I just didn't know it. I've always been the kind of person that people trust to tell their problems to or ask for advice. My true appreciation for this gift only started manifesting itself in recent years. Whether it's women, married couples (along with my wonderfully wise husband), or teens, I love inspiring, motivating and encouraging people to live up to their full potential. So fulfilling and rewarding!
#5 - CHOCOLATE
So, there you go. Just a few of my favorite things. They always leave me with a special sparkle in my eye.
Tuesday, October 28, 2014
3 Things That Steal Your Strength
I recently spoke at an event where the theme was "The Journey to Spiritual Wholeness." As I prepared my presentation, I started out on one train of thought but, as so often happens, I ended up on another. My original plan was to just talk about the meaning of real strength and where it comes from. For me, that source is the Spirit of God. As I kept marinating over it, I was led to go in a different direction because of the many times when strength is called for, but doesn't show up. I believe that we all have a certain amount of strength on reserve, but there are obstacles that, when left unaddressed, deplete us and make us too weak to stand up to life.
Obstacle One: An Untamed Ego
Ego is one of those things that we all have but hate to admit to it. Technically, it's your sense of self-importance. Usually, when you think of ego you think of someone who's a diva or a stuffed-shirt-type. But I've even seen people with low self-esteem battle to be the best at feeling the worst. It can go both ways. So how does that affect your strength? Whenever you become the center of your own attention, it is YOU that has to keep yourself on that pedestal. Ego uses up every bit of energy, even its own, to keep itself alive. It's like being crushed under the pressure of your own weight. The Fix: Humble yourself! Know and understand that you are a "created creator." You didn't get here on your own, and you'll never make it on your own. There is someone greater than you and it's only by Him and his power that you succeed. Remember, the reed that won't bow eventually gets broken.
Obstacle Two: Unchecked Emotions
There's an old song that goes, "Feelings... nothing more than feelings." Feelings are fickle. They change with the direction of the wind, and when you allow yourself to be led by them, you lose focus. Once you lose focus, you lose control. You start making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions and set yourself of for heartbreak every time. This kind of behavior takes up way to much of your strength, and instead of standing on what you believe, you fall for anything. Why? Because you're pulled in too many directions. The Fix: Stop putting your hope and trust in people and things. They don't last. Love people. Use things. Trust God.
Obstacle Three: An Unrenewed Mind
Failure to renew the mind actually gives birth to the first two obstacles. When you don't mature in your thinking, you retard your own growth as an individual. You were made for change. Even your physiological make up testifies to that. When life hands you a challenge, do you have a tendency to rely upon the default settings in our mind rather than learn something new? Not good. What you don't know can hurt you. Ignorance nurtures fear, and fear always paralyzes. That's why you may feel like you're stuck in a rut. You may want to do more with your life, but if your thoughts are always focused on obstacles rather than opportunities, it'll never happen. Why? Because you're getting in your own way. What you think, you will inevitably say, and what you say has great power - good or bad. The Fix: Speak differently and you'll think differently. You've got to focus on the truth rather than the facts. Facts tell you it's cold outside. Truth tells you to put on a coat and walk out anyway.
Overcome these three obstacles and your joy will increase. Increased joy equals increased strength!
Obstacle One: An Untamed Ego
Ego is one of those things that we all have but hate to admit to it. Technically, it's your sense of self-importance. Usually, when you think of ego you think of someone who's a diva or a stuffed-shirt-type. But I've even seen people with low self-esteem battle to be the best at feeling the worst. It can go both ways. So how does that affect your strength? Whenever you become the center of your own attention, it is YOU that has to keep yourself on that pedestal. Ego uses up every bit of energy, even its own, to keep itself alive. It's like being crushed under the pressure of your own weight. The Fix: Humble yourself! Know and understand that you are a "created creator." You didn't get here on your own, and you'll never make it on your own. There is someone greater than you and it's only by Him and his power that you succeed. Remember, the reed that won't bow eventually gets broken.
Obstacle Two: Unchecked Emotions
There's an old song that goes, "Feelings... nothing more than feelings." Feelings are fickle. They change with the direction of the wind, and when you allow yourself to be led by them, you lose focus. Once you lose focus, you lose control. You start making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions and set yourself of for heartbreak every time. This kind of behavior takes up way to much of your strength, and instead of standing on what you believe, you fall for anything. Why? Because you're pulled in too many directions. The Fix: Stop putting your hope and trust in people and things. They don't last. Love people. Use things. Trust God.
Obstacle Three: An Unrenewed Mind
Failure to renew the mind actually gives birth to the first two obstacles. When you don't mature in your thinking, you retard your own growth as an individual. You were made for change. Even your physiological make up testifies to that. When life hands you a challenge, do you have a tendency to rely upon the default settings in our mind rather than learn something new? Not good. What you don't know can hurt you. Ignorance nurtures fear, and fear always paralyzes. That's why you may feel like you're stuck in a rut. You may want to do more with your life, but if your thoughts are always focused on obstacles rather than opportunities, it'll never happen. Why? Because you're getting in your own way. What you think, you will inevitably say, and what you say has great power - good or bad. The Fix: Speak differently and you'll think differently. You've got to focus on the truth rather than the facts. Facts tell you it's cold outside. Truth tells you to put on a coat and walk out anyway.
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